Love yourself this valentine

I had never really thought about myself on a valentines day.I had only given attention to people i loved, cared and who had been an integral part of my life.But this yr, i only thought about myself, may be because i have had enough loving people around me.So I looked at myself, my life-path and started loving myself with the physical, intellectual and emotional imperfections within me.And believe me guys it felt awesome.

Love can bring bliss and blues.But loving yourself can only bring bliss and optimism into your self.

So be your valentine first.Be content & composed about yourself and the world would look colorful.

Abandoned

Have you ever been abandoned?

The toughest situation is being left alone by our near and dear ones.
Yay being abandoned!!!

I have had this experience in my life.Being abandoned makes us understand the world & people around us.It gives us the courage and faith on our-self.This in-turn boosts our confidence and makes us emotionally independent.
Emotional independence is the first step to liberation.Liberation is the destination of all man-kind.

So the next time u are abandoned , do not fear but face it…

Mistakes

All of us commit mistakes, but sometimes life decisions becomes great mistakes which can neither be corrected nor be rewritten.They are called destiny..

Have you had your share of destined mistakes??

Faces !! Optical illusion?

Have you heard of a single soul with two faces? Well do u get what i mean??

I meant that most people have two faces, one the world sees and recognizes to be a kind, and the other face that only a partner can c. I leave the adjective for the second face to u guys , it might be romantic, humorous, child-like,strict, sadistic or even brutal.

Do u guys agree??

Break – up decoded

Most of the relationship bloom with lots of love, promises and expectation initially, but end up on a sad note.This is because we commit a lot of mistakes.Here are 5 common mistakes done by many apart from infidelity which emerges as great factors for the break-up.

1)A Lie: Transparency builds relationship.When we try to cover up things with a lie,what comes as a result is distrust.Distrust slowly kills the relationship.Even a wrong thing done and communicated can save a relationship for being honest and transparent, but not many people realize this.

2)Being Forgetful: It is considered that when we think a person is important , we remember every minute detail of them,be it their favorite color, brand etc.But many remember the mistakes and harsh words spoken out of anger but forget to remember things that has to be remembered.This comes as a bitter pill in many relationships

3)Giving up partner: Giving up your partner in-front of others causes great pain, this not only kills the relationship but the scar can never be healed.Also when you give up your partner in-front of others, the people around you also take your partner for granted.This could lead to worst results.

4)Not keeping things within the two: The problems about the partner should be spoken on the face of the partner , rather than behind.Nothing can be hided in this world so when back biting comes into the knowledge of your partner it makes the relationship more fragile. 

5)Disrespect: Getting opinions in common attributes of life, paying heed to what the other person has to say makes the other person feel respected, which in turn increases the strength of the relationship.On a contrary when respect is not given it causes great distress in the relationship. Many break-up because of these issues, but some live in a relationship with no life inside or a faked up life.These could be avoided if we give importance to our personal life because i feel when personal life is heaven we can rock the world, else our world is doomed